FORGIVE….
It is not an easy word…an even harder task….to forgive.
Myself, like over one billion Catholic Christians worldwide, are in the second week of Lent–the forty days before Easter and a time of prayer, sacrifice and penance.
When asked what I believe is the thing that keeps our family together I consistently come back to this word.
When my children spill juice on to the floor and it seeps in to the vent of the refrigerator,
I forgive.
When coats and shoes are everywhere, the dinner I slaved over is “gross” and husband is late,
I have to swallow hard and forgive.
When my girls roll their eyes and my son shakes his head “no” when asked to do a chore,
I close my own eyes, nod my own head and forgive.
When no one seems to be doing what I want them to do and I realize it is my own expectations of who I want them to be that are falling short,
I have to forgive.
I have to forgive, not because it is Lent or because it is what I am supposed to do. I have found that forgiveness in a family is essential to our growth as individuals…it is a necessary freedom we give to one another that allows us to be who we are.
The word, that now hangs in our kitchen, means that I will not only forgive your faults,
but I will unconditionally accept you in your humanness—and hopefully you will
accept me in mine.
–dcb
Love it …. thank you, I needed that today. ❤
awesome…..you’re welcome 🙂
Now, every time my husband does something that gets me upset. I will think of this blog post. Great post….Thanks Darilyn!
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thank you so much!