It is a whopping 10 degrees here in Colorado….a good time to stay in and put up holiday decor….
This smiley Santa has been in my family for years…I grew up with it. My mom crafted him from simple felt and sewed mini pockets on his body to represent the days of Advent….or the twenty-four days until Christmas.
Traditionally, Advent Calendars entice the children to “open something”(usually candy) each day on the countdown to Christmas. This calendar growing up and with my own children has not been much different, but I decided to do something a bit different this year.
For each day, I made a “coupon”….child specific and involving an act of service from Mom or Dad. We all know how materialistic this time of year can become, so I decided a good way to prepare our families’ heart for the season is to show examples of true giving.
So, when it is their day (each pocket has a tag with their name on it inside) one of my kiddos opens their coupon. When I told them this is what I was doing….you could hear grumbling and groaning about not getting candy.
However, when the first few coupons were for “an early dismissal from school for no reason” or ” a day off from piano practice” or a “trip with Dad (alone) to get an Icee”….their tune changed to that of sweet, caroling angels.
Other coupons include:
Extra media time
Day off from chores
Starbucks with Mom
A week of Mom tidying their room (that was a big one)
An hour basketball game with Dad
Lunch out on a school day
The point is to be child specific and thoughtful and of course…..SIMPLE. The example of true giving hopefully will rub off on the children….
Or…perhaps while giving of yourself to your children, your own heart will be full of cheer and the Joy that comes with the true meaning of the season.
Stay warm. dub